It’s not only that many things are beyond our control. It’s that we can’t change them, and sometimes, that they will not change at all.

What’s most interesting, however, is that when we change our relationship with them, they do change.

But to change our relationship, we first need to accept that they won’t change. It’s up to us to change in such a way that we become able to see what we couldn’t see before.

Once we can see, we can’t unsee and are moving towards change.