Generosity can mean to look away and forget what happened.
Generosity can mean to see what happened and to deal with it together.
It’s a choice you have in any given situation.
It never means to take things out the other’s hand nor to let the other have their choice, even if doing so can be the result of your generosity.
It’s a choice based on wanting to act with the other.
It’s seeing the others, seeing yourself and caring for the relationship.