It may be difficult to choose a position and stand by it. That’s because it also means that some people will not like it. Which people may try to avoid if they know some of those who will not be pleased by such a position.

It’s useful to take a second look. If one doesn’t stand by a chosen position, there is a good chance that one will not be seen by others. It may then also be hard to find someone who is pleased by the lack of position.