Once in a while, we meet people we like and appreciate.

Then, one day something happens and there is a dent in the “universe”. The image previously held needs to be adapted.

It transforms the relationship.

It doesn’t matter if it was something we appreciated or didn’t like.

The image of the other needs to be redrawn.

The question then is, how it affects the meaning of the relationship.

As a result, people may start to ask themselves if they want to shift the frequency of seeing one another.

But that’s starting the adjustment in the relationship with the wrong question.

The real question is if one is willing, to be honest with oneself.

Is the relationship there for both or only for oneself?

Without an answer from the self, it makes no sense to wait for an answer from the other.